I just had an epiphany regarding my relationship and I would love to hear your thoughts

absolutswede · 4 days

She will never enjoy life with you until she can enjoy life without. FACT.

That is all.

thatguyinthesky · 5 days

I moved out on my own at 18 without any help from my parents, graduated post secondary and started my own company that last year made more money than both my parents. I'm only 22 and made more money than you dad!

LaVieJournaliere · 11 days

Death. It's weird but a had a few friends die when I was very young and I don't think I properly developed a fear of death.

redditaccountisgo · 11 days

I honestly don't think so, to be honest I see failure in the long run. He can be your best friend but why fuck if you're not attracted?

Sorry to say that, I really am.

Etheo · 12 days

To truly express an idea to someone you have to make sure you are not "telling" them, people don't like being told anything so you have to be sure to express your thoughts in an open way.

One way would be to ask a lot of questions, people like answering questions, you can then strategically lead them to inevitable conclusions.

Example: "Evolution is a fact, we were not created by intelligent design"

Vs.

"What do you think of carbon dating? And we're did all those dinosaur bones come from?"

Humancomputer87 · 12 days

Have you read the comments and seen how people speak to each other on here? It's answers this question for you.

Use this comment as an example bro.

Smingers · 12 days

I do this fairly regularly, I work in the film industry and work 15 hour days 5 days a week, so to maintain any semblance of a social life I often sacrifice sleep.

Truth? No coffee, it'll fuck you over bad, what I do is; tons of water, carbs, and walk around as much as possible.

I've done 16 hour day, went straight to the club with my girl, went home and made food, she went to sleep and I went back to work for 15 hour day. That's my life bro.

RancidRabbit · 12 days

I would totally date myself, we would have an awesome time, sorry if this a baww thread but if I wasn't me I would totally hang out with myself too.

I generally enjoy myself, sorry OP.

bubblebuttbntyhunter · 12 days

My girlfriend gives amazing handies and I love them, that is all.

grecon11 · 16 days

I don't know how to give advice on this because I don't think it matters... At all... Not even a little.

throwitout432 · 16 days

I have the perfect book for you, it's called "The Way of the Superior man," my GF and I are going on 6 years and I know EXACTLY how you feel. I can honestly say that this book but a lot of stuff in perspective for me. I think you have nothing to worry about, these things happen in long term relationships, it's just another obstacle for you guys to push through together.

Good luck buddy and don't forget, you are a lucky man.

gunvalk · 18 days

You know marijuana is incredibly toxic for dogs right?

wAnUs8 · 18 days

Hope it was worth it girl, I'd divorce the shit out of you and never look back.

He deserves better.

wAnUs8 · 19 days

Jesus, even I'll say you should run at this point.

emailatemaildotcom · 20 days

Kissing a guy, in my mind, it's worth ending a meaningful relationship over, which I know most of reddit disagrees with me.

That is, of course, if she told you immediately, appologizes profusely and works to gain your trust back.

You told her you would break up with her if she ever cheated and it seems that she is calling you out on that, if you don't follow through now you are enabling the behavior to continue.

PoliceAbuse · 28 days

I cannot give you a play by play for how to approach this, but there are some services available for you but it's going to take some work to actually obtain traction on this.

I believe that it is your responsibility to follow through on this, not just for yourself, but for everyone, this man clearly should not be a police officer and should not be able to put his fingers or baton in your mouth.

yozgatsi · 28 days

This was a fucking home-run, couldn't have said it better.

RobotJohnson · 1 month

Are we talking zombie or infected? Infected are still alive and require oxygen. Zombies would not drown necessarily but it is still impossible to get around under water, But they would not float because you need air in your body to be buoyant, so eventually deteriorate by being washed around in the ocean.

redditMEred · 1 month

Is that the court house in Vancouver?

BazTheSpaz · 1 month

3 month anniversary? So you just celebrate the 12th day of every month for example? And you plan on doing this every month?

I mean if you want to do something nice for her that's totally fine, not really sure what's appropriate for the 3 month milestone considering you're in the very early stages of this relationship, flowers? Dinner? Bondage swing? Really depends where you are in this relationship so the amount of time that has passed is really irrelevant.

cbthrowaway · 2 months

Those kind of outlandish statements really don't hold any merit. I really hope you don't get sexually assaulted either, but if you do, not matter how difficult it may be, you should really go to the police.

cbthrowaway · 2 months

The difficulty of the situation does not justify doing nothing, yes I understand that it is difficult but you even mentioned why it is that way.

The only point I was trying to make is that these questions have to be asked, are you honestly trying to tell me I'm wrong for asking them?

Like I said in my first post, which you clearly didn't read fully, is that the only wrong action here is no action, if this did or did not happen, something needs to be done either way.

cbthrowaway · 2 months

My thoughts exactly.

cbthrowaway · 2 months

That thought occurred to me as well, so afterwards she's all "Well let's get a drink?" very suspicious

cbthrowaway · 2 months

Does that sound easy to me? Yes, yes it does, the first thing I would if I got raped would go to the police and checked out by a doctor, I would take solace in the fact that professionals have checked me out and that the police could potentially take a rapist of the street. It's the right thing to do so it's what should be done.

This is a face-rape, very unusual but also means you wouldn't have to get naked to be examined, there is no excuse here really.

You can get mad at me and downvote all you want but all I'm doing is suggesting that this story is not all that it seems. If she did get raped, the police HAVE to be notified for the safety of others, if she wasn't, then OP has to accept that fact.

wAnUs8

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