Question - Would You Date You?

breakupguy · 8 days

Did she change it or is it the same kind she was on when you met. Maybe you could suggest that she try going off of it and see if her libido returns. It can take 3-6 months to happen, but hormonal birth control is notorious for personality/libido changes.

stuckinbed42 · 8 days

It might be the venue. I meet a lot of men in my daily life through meetup.com. I go to activities I enjoy and I have fun doing them. I find the non-singles one are actually better as the men in them aren't looking for sex, but rather, people to have fun with. Join a group that does hiking, dining, gaming or whatever activity you enjoy. There are also cool single guys at the book club that meets at my local book store. I'm in a relationship, but since I'm technically single and don't wear a ring, I've been asked out several times at these types of events. When lonely, find a hobby you enjoy and join a group of other hobbyists that like the same thing. You may not meet someone right away, but people might join later, or you might make a good female friend that has a cousin/brother/friend that you meet when you attend her birthday party. Anyway...online men ARE generally more interested in sex only, I've noticed.

breakupguy · 8 days

Is she on any medication...anti-depressants or birth control? These can both change your mood and sex drive.

MKorostoff · 9 days

I want this in a poster for my desktop background

Logical_Conclusion_ · 9 days

Then, no, for sure.

dundermifflin123 · 10 days

Always easy in the right relationship.

MysteriousTO · 10 days

You need to fix your profile, bud.

Logical_Conclusion_ · 10 days

What about her is unattractive to you? Does a woman have to be above average in looks for you to be attracted to her or is there something specific about this woman that you find unattractive? If you really just keep expecting women to all look like porn stars, you will probably be FA.

If there are other average/below average women that you are attracted to, just not this one, then I would pass for sure and wait to find someone who is unusual looking, but appealing to you, personally.

If you find yourself only attracted to very beautiful women, then you have a bigger problem. Even beautiful women can become fat, get stretch marks and age. So, if it is just looks that matter to you, then you should probably work on that issue for yourself.

In a normal relationship, attraction isn't all about looks. You want to touch and snuggle that person even in non sexual ways. You are drawn to them, so that if they do get less desireable physically with age, you are still attracted to them. Does that make sense?

Anyway, don't get involved with this girl. It isn't fair and you will both always miss the intimacy part of a relationship that being with someone you are hot for brings.

ashatwork · 11 days

I've had it for years. I had an ablation to deal with the bleeding, but the cramps/ovary pain is still there. I went off of BCPs three years ago. I treat it with advil, NO SUGAR except what comes in fruit, and evening primrose oil. I still get pain, but it is tolerable and treatable. It hasn't gotten any worse over the past three years.

lizzardx · 11 days

I live in moving comfort fiona.

earwigy1990 · 13 days

Single moms..here you come!!

hahze · 18 days

He's a guy who knows what he wants and asks for it..those are the kinds of guys that get women. Oh..and I think this is fake. But, anyway, it is always the assholes you see with women.

bobored · 21 days

I want to look that gorgeous now. :(

Bete-Noire · 21 days

Well, either way, it feels way better to be in a relationship where I'm getting my needs met. Good luck!

Bete-Noire · 21 days

I married a man like this and it didn't work out, mostly because of this very problem. He loved me very much...paid for my college, was right there when I was sick, was kind etc., but he was an introvert and just never NEEDED me. It always made me feel bad and we wound up divorcing. He was a bit of a workaholic and had a low libido as well, so I just never felt like I was number one on his list of priorities.

My current boyfriend of six years is just the opposite, and I am so much happier. He actually as more of a need for couple time and sex than I do, and it is a much more comfortable place to be.

FruitFucker2000 · 23 days

Blackmail her for sex.

ireallywantapickle · 24 days

Hello.

mikasayschu · 24 days

And I thought I was alone in this one.

Totally_Not_Furry · 26 days

I dreamed I was doing Jax from mortal combat once.

Thumbz8 · 27 days

You got it backwards.

hyhubu · 27 days

You are just as cute as James Franco.

novelty_para · 27 days

Am I the only one that prefers showering AFTER sex. That is when I get all sweaty and covered in..um..man juice.

sparktika · 27 days

This is the problem I keep running into. I need things like the smith machine and other aids, but since they are inferior, no one admits to using them or recommends them, so I can't find a good routine. And, as an overweight, middle aged mom, I feel rather lost around the machines at the gym. I've tried a trainer, but they never want to show you how to do things on your own, they just seem to want to get you hooked on them so you keep paying them.

sparktika · 27 days

This happened many years ago and I'm about as good as I'm going to get. I have done PT and work on a Bosu Ball regularly. I very much doubt it will improve much from where I am. What I'm wanting is a good routine for machines. Everything I read maligns machines so much in favor of free weight/combination/body weight type exercise that I'm having trouble finding any good workout routines for machines. I get that free weights are superior, but I would like some rep ideas and routines.

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