My dad sent me this email with advice on who to date and when to bounce. Thought I'd share.

sassylassie · 1 year

It's kinda funny how self-righteous people can be on the internet if they know two things about you!

sassylassie · 1 year

Most people usually work for their money so for them, time=money. Time or money spent on me tells me I'm important to them (though it wouldn't work if he ONLY spent money on me and no time).

sassylassie · 1 year

This is all assuming that HE asked ME out. I'm of the firm belief that if a man asks a woman out, it should be on him, but I will offer regardless. If I asked a guy out I'd spring for the movie tickets or whatever.

It gets me upset because I (and many other women I know) believe that if he really wanted me/liked me, he'd pay, unless he was broke as a joke. Besides that I'm known to trade off on payments (he gets the first, I'll get the next). But the first date, where HE asked me out? Yeah, I do think he should at least offer.

sassylassie · 1 year

Because I grew up as an ugly ducking and was jealous that my high school friends had guys always offering to take them out and shit? I don't know, it just makes me feel good to know he cares that much about me. He doesn't HAVE to, it's like doing the dishes without being asked. (Which he also does, the sweetie pie.)

sassylassie · 1 year

I do, especially when I'm with a boyfriend. But I like that he offers to pay for me most times; that's enough. I don't let him every time though, I try to keep it even. What I said earlier was more meant for first dates.

Edit: Looks like I'm being downvoted to oblivion. I'm only speaking the truth from a woman's perspective -- if you choose not to believe it, that's your choice but it'll work against you. Next time you're wondering why that girl didn't call when you made her pay half, this is why. I'm not saying it's right, it's just how it is.

sassylassie · 1 year

Society and feminists can say what they want... As far as I and most of the women I know are concerned, if he didn't at least offer to pay (we're talking first date at least), he's just not that interested. (Or just really broke.)

sassylassie · 1 year

So the comment above mine "I expect to pay, but I don't expect to be expected to pay :)" is also a test. He's testing the girl to see if she will offer. However he gets 105 upvotes and I at this moment have 1. Yay!

sassylassie · 1 year

Yes, on the first date -- at least. But if I knew he was a struggling student/artist, I'd be happy to go dutch, though finding that out on or before the first date can be a little tricky...

treeonthehill · 1 year

I thought of a bunch of middle-aged people writing these (if you look at the pages the handwriting is different amongst them). What a waste of time and effort!

I'd be truly impressed if they could somehow make them help their community/people instead of wasting human effort on something this senseless.

whawhat · 1 year

I live in a good part of Queens where it's not very crowded... Almost never wait more than 15 minutes, usually 5 or less. Depends on where in NYC!

sassylassie · 1 year

While I wouldn't necessarily be proud of that weight, it's also her life and her decision. The thread's not about her weight, she was just trying to make a point about women and self-esteem.

sassylassie · 1 year

As a lady I always offer to pay for my half though if the guy takes me up on it, I come to think he's not very interested in me... It's the little things.

EDIT: on the first date!

sassylassie · 1 year

It's so sad that this comment got upvoted... Once this woman mentioned she was heavier, this is the result. Fucking lame.

Burger_King · 1 year

Dude... I wanna do that (from the girl's side).

FuckYesMILFs · 1 year

One of my exes said while a past girlfriend was going down on him, she said, "Yeah, gimme that cum; I wanna eat your babies." If that was me I'm sure I woulda been laughing too hard to take her seriously after that.

littlemonster010 · 1 year

Not unless you really want like, 15 cents.

nurturingFog · 1 year

Give it a try... Try not watering for a day or two longer than usual. I bet your babies will perk up a lot and not look so wilty.

nurturingFog · 1 year

Please, pretty please, don't water until they look like they NEED it. Weeds grow best when they need to survive -- when water is lacking, their roots grow out in search of it. Based on your days they could very easily go 4, 5, perhaps 6 days in between waterings.

You can start doing a "lift test." It's when you use your judgement (or a scale if you wanna get specific) for the weight of the plant + pot. You should know how much it weighs, approximately, when it's dry vs just watered. Only water when it gets near the dry weight. To thrive it needs to not be babied!

nurturingFog · 1 year

When's the last time you watered? I know in an earlier post you said you hadn't watered for a week but they look like they're almost drowning... But they look like healthy princesses otherwise.

littlemonster010 · 1 year

Charizard was the rarest card in the series (well I dunno about when it started getting all stupid with over 150 pokemon). But when it first came out, it was the #1 card.. A first edition Charizard could've netted you like $200 at its peak.

One of my greatest moments is related to Pokemon cards too. My brother and I scraped and pinched our pennies to collect them. After spending about $200 on them over a series of months, we'd accumulated most of the collection (just missing 1 holo). Sold the entire set on eBay right before the Pokemon market crash... Walked away with $400. Pretty good for a 13-year old!

bwner · 1 year

I can't take a man seriously if he's in tighty whities...

FistfulOfBran · 1 year

I'm in NYC

FistfulOfBran · 1 year

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Merriwanna · 1 year

Clueless

bendynachos · 1 year

I think people get really caught up with their identity; how they define themselves and how they think they're perceived by others. Right now you're a student, male (apologies if I assumed incorrectly), in your 20s (right?), and you might be a brother, an uncle, a former state champion wrestler... Whatever it is, don't get too caught up in being "that" guy that rides a motorcycle or "that" guy that's really into tattooing. That doesn't make you YOU.

sassylassie

TROPHY CASE

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