Girlfriend will only have sex after a shower

novelty_para · 4 months

26, both of us

novelty_para · 4 months

no, we are not Japanese

novelty_para · 4 months

i am hot weird man, i take showers without complaining, believe me, i understand the need for cleanliness, what i do not understand however the "let's have a shower as late as possible so i can be too tired to do anything"

novelty_para · 4 months

no, Caucasian

novelty_para · 4 months

she always gets home before I do, so that is out of the question. She never complained about my smell, and I asked her A TON of times, she said she likes my smell. Tried joining in the shower, doesn't really work, she always complains about not being able to clean herself properly when i join her

novelty_para · 4 months

yeah, i see you understand me.

novelty_para · 4 months

she is never in a mood before a shower and won't let me touch her

novelty_para · 4 months

been there, tried that. it usually ends up in a fight. no make up sex afterwards. like, ever

novelty_para · 4 months

birth control. the thing is, she only takes it 9 months a year. the rest of the time, we use condoms. but still no change in libido

novelty_para · 4 months

I think that might be the problem indeed :(

novelty_para · 4 months

I respect and understand that, and I do that myself.

novelty_para · 4 months

I have, a lot, but we only go out together...

novelty_para · 4 months

absolutely nothing. the problem is that she only allows me to touch her AFTER a shower, and she takes the showers so late, that she ain't in the mood any more

novelty_para · 4 months

That's the problem. we always have showers before AND after sex

novelty_para · 4 months

she doesn't drink. at all...

novelty_para · 4 months

I used to like it too... but she doesn't

novelty_para · 4 months

I've tried that and the result is always the same: we both say we will have more sex, but nothing ever happens.

novelty_para · 4 months

that is actually a good idea, i will try that, thanks

novelty_para · 4 months

Indeed, I have, but came to no conclusion... she just takes a shower when she is too tired to do anything else

novelty_para · 4 months

yes, I have, she's not into that :(

novelty_para · 4 months

I do not know, she allows cunnilingus, she even likes it...

novelty_para · 4 months

Yes, a VERY VERY long routine to apply creams on her body after the shower...

novelty_para · 4 months

yeah...

novelty_para · 4 months

That would work if I COULD go out with friends without her... but that NEVER EVER EVER happens. I'm always with her (except when I'm at work)

novelty_para · 4 months

This argument came up A LOT in the past months, but to no visible change. She just does not want to have sex without a shower, but she won't take a shower earlier... can't seem to understand why and she won't explain why either

novelty_para

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