Let me ask you this: You say you have female friend who you do "treat like men." (Or as I might say, equally. You don't hold anything back from them.) So at what point do you begin to treat them like men? What happens, or, what do they do to make you treat them equally.

I think that if you're really honest with yourself, you'll find that there is absolutely no reason to treat women any different than men. Women are just as varied and idiosyncratic as anyone else and some of them might not like coarse language or unsavory images, just as many men would not.

By immediately assuming something about someone because of their gender, you're being sexist. Man or woman. And when you hold back information, or your "real self" (the self that swears and likes fucked up things on the internet) just because the person is a certain gender, you're being hurtful. You're treating that person as if they are not privileged to certain information because they have a body that is different than yours.

Do you see what I'm saying?