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Hey reddit, what are some questions that only your gender would know the answer to? by doubleMdoubleLin AskReddit

[–]iowan 11 points12 points ago

That's what gender (opposed to sex) is. It's a construct of society, the baggage, constraints, expectations that go along with one's biological sex. Sure there's nothing inherently male or female about specialized knowledge, but male and female are different from masculine and feminine.

What movie do you regret not seeing in a theater? by vtbeavensin AskReddit

[–]iowan 2 points3 points ago

Avatar.

wouldn't it be cool if we could somehow, officially declare all swear/curse words to no longer be vulgar or offensive? by martin_lomaxin AskReddit

[–]iowan 1 point2 points ago

Taboo language has an important linguistic function. If suddenly all swear words became non-vulgar, we'd just come up with new ones.

What is something you have in common with your parents that you will always cherish? by eagle12006in AskReddit

[–]iowan 2 points3 points ago

I got my Mom hooked on Reddit. It actually gives us a lot to talk about.

Given North Carolina, should I even bother going to Church with my Mom on Mother's Day? by dzl10in AskReddit

[–]iowan 0 points1 point ago

You deciding not to go to church won't affect the religious right at all, but it might mean a lot to your mom. I'm an atheist and a lesbian and I hadn't been to church in years. A couple months back I flew home to see my grandfather before he had heart surgery. I went to a Catholic Mass with him and during the sermon he said something like, "I've been hearing a lot about gay marriage. Fifty years ago interracial marriage was illegal. Just think about that."

I know this my not be the best place to ask but, what's the best way for a gay kid to come out? by Wychinovain AskReddit

[–]iowan 0 points1 point ago

You might have better luck posting on r/LGBT or r/ainbow. I think everyone comes out differently based on their situation. If you're still dependent on your parents and you think they'll take it badly, it could be better to wait. Good luck.

Rematching sign-up: do it for IRL karma! by zxoin secretsanta

[–]iowan 5 points6 points ago

is it possible to sign up to be a rematcher without having participated in the original exchange?

Reddit, what are your thoughts on gays in the military? by justanothertutin AskReddit

[–]iowan 0 points1 point ago

Okay, here are two that you've never heard of before:

1) If gays are allowed in the military then the military will have mobility problems because the gays will keep falling down when the army tries to move.

2) We need gays in the sciences not the military because they are the country's future.

These were legitimate arguments from one of my sister's student's final essays when she was teaching English in China. ಠ_ಠ

Reddit: Why do you guys support men who do not want to be men anymore via sex change but harrass homosexual men who do not want to be homosexual? by TruthGuardin AskReddit

[–]iowan 8 points9 points ago

Because you can transition and be happy, but I've seen no evidence that someone can willfully change their sexual orientation.

*PLEASE READ* I need help and advice, I suffer from a panic disorder coupled with Agoraphobia and Emetophobia and I don't know what to do next by quine_mccluskeyin AskReddit

[–]iowan 0 points1 point ago

No, it's an over the counter medicine used for motion sickness. It's an anti-emetic. Good luck whatever you decide.

*PLEASE READ* I need help and advice, I suffer from a panic disorder coupled with Agoraphobia and Emetophobia and I don't know what to do next by quine_mccluskeyin AskReddit

[–]iowan 2 points3 points ago

My wife is an emetophobe and taking Dramamine helps her. It doesn't help with the actual phobia, but it helps control the panic attacks because it eliminates nausea.

Woman travels to South Africa for 60th birthday to visit two "tame" cheetahs, gets mauled by greenBaoziin offbeat

[–]iowan 1 point2 points ago

Her husband kept taking pictures‽

How do I find out if I'm lb, without using someone? by elizawithoutbethin actuallesbians

[–]iowan 3 points4 points ago

There's also the danger that if you find someone willing to help you experiment, you'll completely fall for her. Then you might end up getting hurt because she isn't looking for a relationship.

My mom was mad at me for wearing a pride shirt to school, so she outed me to my dad. by noh8nodakin ainbow

[–]iowan 26 points27 points ago

Yeah. I've always wondered if the people using this argument are all closet cases. Kind of sad.

I hand forged my own wedding ring out of a chunk of Meteorite and Nickel Tooling Steel. Here is a huge gallery with 40+ pictures! by laporkensteinin pics

[–]iowan 88 points89 points ago

Does this make you feel better? Wikipedia:

Like all elements with atomic numbers larger than iron, gold is thought to have been formed from a supernova nucleosynthesis process. Their explosions scattered metal-containing dusts (including heavy elements like gold) into the region of space in which they later condensed into our solar system and the Earth.

Saddest movie death by slashx14in AskReddit

[–]iowan 0 points1 point ago

Leaf on the wind.

HAE never knowingly met a homosexual in person? by OompaOrangeFacein DoesAnybodyElse

[–]iowan 0 points1 point ago

I assure you there are lots of gays in Iowa.

I have a presentation tomorrow. How can I not be nervous? by That_Nervousguyin AskReddit

[–]iowan 0 points1 point ago

I'm always really nervous public speaking too. In August I had to defend a paper as part of the comprehensive exams for my program--it's a 45 minute presentation with 15 minutes of intense questions. Well, my sister and I have an ongoing marshmallow war (here's a link) to a post my sister made explaining it. Anyway, the day before the presentation, my sister messaged reaction_on_my_nub and convinced her to draw me this. I know this doesn't really help you, but maybe it'll take your mind of presenting for a sec.

Does anyone on reddit want some cereal marshmallows? by sammychammyin AskReddit

[–]iowan 0 points1 point ago

Yes! Interested.

I've noticed the trend of how awful some parents are, so instead tell me why your parents are awesome? by Kmh36in AskReddit

[–]iowan 16 points17 points ago

The day after I came out, my mom called me from a gay bookstore wanting to know whether the rainbow "MOM" bumper sticker meant that she was a gay mom or a mom with a gay kid.

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