This is the most STUPID SHIT I have ever seen. Holding hands is now a "gateway" to sexual behaviour.

Julian702 · 11 days

The hilarious/sad/scary thing is the people that pass these laws genuinely believe (in their own delusional, narcissistic way) that they're helping children.

Lord_of_the_Mourning · 18 days

It's r/politics. The best solution, as always, is to ignore them.

vagabondspades · 18 days

Relevant excerpt by my favorite self-improvement author.

Frogtech · 20 days

As usual, XKCD nails it

SNAKE_COMMANDER · 1 month

Hilarious movies, hilarious man. R.I.P. Leslie Nielsen.

onlyxplicit · 1 month

I like to think of the chaser effect as just another part of my sex drive, and utilize it to accomplish things like I would a 7-day testosterone spike.

JohnLeprechaun · 1 month

I define it as thinking about something in place taking meaningful action. In the case of seduction, there's a lot of material you could years reading, and confusing and contradictory "techniques" you could spend an inordinate amount of time "mastering".

Those things are just "mentally masturbating": what a seducer (which believe me, I am far from) should be doing is building an attractive look and lifestyle, then (most importantly) actually getting out into the world and learning how to talk to real women.

JohnLeprechaun · 1 month

IMO, you can learn the most important things about seduction and self-improvement from Mark Manson (Seddit AMA, Blog), and Aaron Sleazy (Seddit AMA, Blog). Most other "techniques" are just mental masturbation.

Atrix621 · 1 month

"Models" by Mark Manson

TheQuestionnair · 1 month

Try it for a week or two, see if you notice enough positive changes, then decide.

Anfrax · 1 month

Including moderation.

Checkerszero · 1 month

I hope more guys get into "The Game". A bunch of tools running around with obviously canned lines and routines who don't bother to look into the self-improvement/emotional side of seduction will just make us look better by comparison.

Camp_Olympia · 1 month

I'm in! I'm also selling the rest of my weed and related paraphernalia (should have done that a long time ago), going to exercise even more, and cut out the bullshit distractions from my life in order get more shit done (so this will be the last time i'm on reddit today).

tmckeithan · 1 month

As a 21 year old virgin, yes, absolutely. My subconscious attitudes towards sex have been very damaged by my only sexual experience/release thus far being heavily detached from reality.

As I go on more dates and/or attempt to sleep with women, all of my built up sexual fears and insecurities become more and more obvious to me, but that's okay because I need to feel these things in order to understand and conquer them, as opposed to just logically knowing they exist.

milton22 · 2 months

Interestingly enough, Nietzsche, who was not a big fan of Kant to say the least, also had this to say:

The reabsorption of semen by the blood ... perhaps prompts the stimulus of power, the unrest of all forces towards the overcoming of resistances ... The feeling of power has so far mounted highest in abstinent priests and hermits

Holyzone · 2 months

The most important thing: Distract youself! Browsing NoFap thinking "I'm not fapping right now!" every 5 minutes is a sure fire way to backslide quickly (speaking from experience). Some things to do:

-Start weightlifting

-Start running (this works well on your recovery days from above)

-Join a club/sport, meet new people

-Hang out with your friends more often

-Re-commit yourself to your studies (if in school)

-Work extra hard on a promotion/product launch/whatever (if in workforce)

The most important thing is to find something genuinely fulfilling to you and do it. Addiction isn't about what you do, it's about what you don't do because you're busy doing something you're addicted to.

stupidquestionsss · 2 months

Going to bed high makes it very, very difficult for me not to fap, i'd imagine others have similar experiences.

amaaanda · 2 months

How about: today's resolution: do something you've been putting off, thus actually empowering yourself? As a bonus, actually doing something helps to teach you that it takes a lot more than a 2-minute training montage to get results IRL.

boxmanboxman · 2 months

I think you've answered all of your own questions already:

...I did all those things and had a blast.

cliftonixs · 2 months

What are you talking about?! I heard that if I maintain frame, stay in state, do enough warm-up sets, watch for IOI's, use negs, don't get AMOG'ed, build rapport, use an indirect opener, wait seven hours, plow through LMR, break rapport, use a direct opener, and spend thousands of dollars on books, DVD's and bootcamps, I can can get any girl I want! Are you suggesting that not every girl is going to be attracted to me, even if I do all that?

rockgokou · 3 months

Still only about 50 minutes in, but it earned my upvote a while ago.

cmsimike · 3 months

This shit is ridiculous. In a good way.

notlurkinganymoar · 3 months

If she doesn't go home with you, it's obviously because you weren't alpha enough, didn't maintain frame, have a direct enough opener, build rapport, qualify her enough, pass all her shit tests, do enough warm-up sets, have an indirect enough opener, kino enough, break rapport, wait seven hours, have enough social proof, etc.. It couldn't possibly be that you just wasted your whole night on a girl that clearly was never that into you in the first place. That would be way too simple and obvious.

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