The biggest ways that he has helped me is helping me learn how to say no, and how to figure out what I truly want. I think I posted in another response that the most difficult thing for me sexually is when he asks "Tell Daddy what you want" - he does this for every day life as well. In the household I grew up in, I wasn't allowed to have my own preferences - it was do as my parents wished, period. While it may seem that I'm echoing that now with my relationship, it's actually quite a bit different.

I have the power to say what I want or no at any time. Being in this relationship is a constant choice. I am honored and adored by my Daddy because I choose to submit to him.

Before this relationship, I had true trouble saying no to anyone, or defining what I really wanted out of life - I was taught that those were bad things when I was little.

Daddy has opened my eyes, and taught me how to be more assertive. I can say no in complete confidence. Additionally, through many long hours of heart-wrenching conversation and self soul-searching, I have a much better grasp on who I am at the core, and what I desire out of my life. I tell Daddy of my findings when I have them, and he helps me obtain my goals and provides mountains of encouragement.

Sorry for the very long answer!