Before i begin I'm going to prefix this with 'At the end of the day it's up to you how you look at other people and i respect that' .... however, it is this ignorant mentality and statements such as 'i want to be with attractive people of the opposite gender. do fat people not care about this? ' and 'do fat people not care what they look like?' that makes the whole process of losing weight so difficult. Admittedly there are probably a minority of people that are happy with themselves the way they are and wouldn't wish to change. However the majority of overweight individuals would do anything to change themselves for the better, in terms of general health and speaking from personal experiences to shut people like yourself up!

Yes it is important to look after ourselves physically but there are many contributing factors to why people can become overweight (depression, etc) and the social mentality that only attractive people will find someone to like them and that for some unknown reason obese people should be chastised is laughable, but that's a sociological problem.

In short, yes 'fat' people do care but its really hard to do something about it when your already on the ground and people keep kicking you back down everytime you try to get up.