A friend sent me this picture while sitting in traffic today.

chugachugachoochoooo · 2012-05-25T18:43:11.754389+00:00

I hate seeing shit like this because it makes me paranoid about giving road head.

OP: If the people in this photo find out their picture was posted on the internet, that guy will probably never get road head again. People ought to consider the ramifications before posting pictures of strangers on the internet.

furrowed_brow · 8 days

Protip: Fuck you.

hedonistPhilosopher · 14 days

Yes... but my vagina's anatomy probably won't support it :(

mouth_mouth · 17 days

While I don't think a 13 year old should be having sex, if she is, you should make sure she is doing it safely.

I recommend Our Bodies, Ourselves. I bought it for myself secretly when I got my drivers license, and passed it onto my younger sister a few years later (and I bought a copy for a redditor too!). It not only talks about sexual health, but also about respecting yourself, and mental health.

frankieplum · 21 days

Masturbation.

dasher_dancer · 21 days

Really? I missed that. And I was watching pretty closely...

dasher_dancer · 21 days

I'm kind of pissed that in Game of Thrones, there's boobs everywhere.

And there's been one penis shot.

And it wasn't even in a sexual situation; it was of a guy who was tied naked to a horse, and then dragged to death. Not exactly sexy. Apparently penis = humiliation, boobs = hot in Hollywood.

BalconyBalony · 22 days

OP messaged me. Almost missed your comment!

I'll pm you :)

Edit: And it is sent!

throwaway_tqbfjotld · 22 days

24/f here.

Sex ed is important, even when you aren't having sex! It allows you to prepare for the future, and to be a resource for your friends. I also didn't have much sex education. My parents didn't pull me out of the school lesson on it, but considering how useless it was, they might as well have done so.

After I got my driver's license, I snuck to the bookstore and bought myself (the previous version of) Our Bodies, Ourselves.

It's pretty much the definitive book on women's sexual health. It covers everything from mental health, to contraception, to pregnancy, to STIs, to general female health, and other things I can't remember. I ended up giving my copy to my younger sister, because I knew her sex ed was going to be as crap-tacular as mine.

We have both developed into extremely sexually responsible women. Probably because we're paranoid of getting pregnant and our parents not paying for college :p

I don't know what your financial situation is like. If you want I can mail you (or I can mail it to your boyfriend, since it looks like you live with your parents) a copy. Sexual health, both physical and mental, is something I'm extremely passionate about.

Edit: If anybody else is in a similar position to the OP (or has a friend who is), I can buy a copy of that book for you too. Up to... three people? Four? I'm not made of money, tragically. I doubt that many people will take me up on the offer anyway.

OddQuestionGirl · 22 days

Oh my. I don't own vaseline or coconut oil, so I used some lube. "sliquid organics, botanically infused with carrageenan, nori, and wakame". Hopefully it won't be a breeding ground?

OddQuestionGirl · 22 days

I haven't any vaseline... So I used some lube. I don't know why it didn't occur to me sooner.

need_advice_1234 · 27 days

I'm not a rape survivor, but I do listen to NPR, and heard an interesting story on there.

It's important to remember that memories have read and write access at the same time. They aren't like CDs. You can't listen to Vivaldi after a rock concert, and have guitars play next time you play the CD.

But with memory... current experiences shape memory. So while you are being intimate, she might be thinking, "it's OK, this is nothing like being raped..." but as she accesses the memories, their shape changes. If she couldn't remember the attacker's face, his face might become your face. The feelings she felt then get associated with what she experiences now.

Or maybe I'm remembering the story completely incorrectly. But it's something to keep in mind? I don't know how this is helpful.

OddQuestionGirl · 1 month

Makes perfect sense to me!

True, he's short, but he's a cutie
Dat wit!
Wealth, and a sort-of honor (what with the "Always Pay Their Debts" thing). While I certainly don't consider myself a gold digger in this world, living in a palace vs toiling in the fields isn't really much of a competition
While all the other men are out there getting themselves murdered, he's clever enough to avoid such situations
High sex drive, and probably great in-bed skills as compensation for his height

da-da-da · 1 month

Know that if he likes it, you might want to look into a prostate toy. There's vibrating ones, and non-vibrating ones. My boyfriend has got three; I'm at work so I can't look up the details/spelling/etc, but there's a medical-grade plastic one by Aneros (?) that sits in there and touches the prostate. He's also got a Billy (or something) by Lelo, which is a vibrating male toy. It curves a bit, but with my fellow's anatomy, putting pressure on the prostate is a little bit of a challenge for me. It also requires a hand; I can't just put it in and concentrate on blowing him, and he can't wear it during intercourse. He's also got another one that I haven't used with him that is a cross between the two; you don't need to manually hold it in, and it vibrates. No idea what it is called.

But yeah. If he likes it, consider a toy. They can reach pleasurable places better, your finger won't smell like poo, and he can (potentially) wear it during intercourse/it won't be an extra thing to think about during blowjobs.

Lost_Lil_Masochist · 1 month

Do you know about /r/BDSMcommunity?

DBeacon · 1 month

Oh god. The yeast! THE YEAST!

DBeacon · 1 month

Gluestick, and a mini-sized tube of tooth paste. And a hairbrush handle, of course.

Not at the same time, obviously. That would be weird.

OddQuestionGirl · 1 month

Aww, that sucks! I kind of feel like that may have happened with some of my more introverted friends who went to community college...

But I'm sure things will work out :) One tip that I find helps: don't stress the fact that you have "few things in common." People are people everywhere. You don't need to find the one person who loves cooking pigs feet while watching anime and singing show tunes to find someone who can be a good acquaintance, and maybe even a friend.

OddQuestionGirl · 1 month

Whatever makes you happy :) Turns out I'm an introverted extrovert. I basically didn't have any friends in elementary school, and once I finally got some I was like, "NEVER AGAIN." Being social tiring sometimes... but better for me than the alternative.

OddQuestionGirl · 1 month

Exactly. I see people talk about how their SO fulfill all their needs... but I don't believe one person could do that. Maybe I'm just needy.

OddQuestionGirl · 1 month

I have too many favorite people. My best friend is one of my favorites, but even if we were lesbians we would make a terrible couple. We've discussed this at length :p My SO is certainly one of my favorites. But he's favorite in a different way. I don't really know how to explain it.

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