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Who is the guy at the top of our gaymers subreddit? by Document3in gaymers

[–]LulzAndHappiness 12 points13 points ago

If you mouseover the image, it says: "by synspark with special guest star chalkycandy".

My bet is that it's chalkycandy. He has submitted images to gaymersgonewild so you can go compare if you want....you know, for science >_>

Chicago Meatup: things people are bringing? by PsyDMin gaymers

[–]LulzAndHappiness 0 points1 point ago

My general rule is: bring what you want to play. This worked for the most part during the last Chicago meatup, but we were missing a couple of pivotal systems (like PS3) since people assumed others were bringing it.

I WILL be bringing two PS3 TE fightsticks. They are bat-top octogates, since that's how I roll. If you need to use your own stick or want to play on 360, bring your own stick.

ARE YOU READY?!?! by OtterJayin gaymers

[–]LulzAndHappiness 2 points3 points ago

Shaking and cumming in anticipation.

Who here is watching this season of Rupaul's Drag Race? by OHSHI-in gaymers

[–]LulzAndHappiness 1 point2 points ago

That's really cool that you were able to see these girls perform. They seem really unique. I do agree that the post-apocalyptic theme seemed a bit tailor-made for Sharon (which is why I hope she can wow us during the subsequent challenges). I also hope that The Princess continues to hit on Sharon and that their bro-mance/girl-mance/drag-mance? plays throughout the season.

Turns out, I'm getting way too hot. by theoryofskyin gaymers

[–]LulzAndHappiness 6 points7 points ago

I was about to say....the dancing, the food accessories, and the guys' styles reminded me of Ice Cream Truck.

And yes, we can always use more Ice Cream Truck.....How is that even a question? :3

Who here is watching this season of Rupaul's Drag Race? by OHSHI-in gaymers

[–]LulzAndHappiness 2 points3 points ago

I didn't even realize the show started already. Just watched the first episode now and love Sharon Needles. She killed it with her ghoul outfit. I just hope she's flexible to make it through all the other challenges and up to the finals.

Chicago Meetup - Michigan gaymers, Megabus? by ZenGamerin gaymers

[–]LulzAndHappiness 3 points4 points ago

If you're asking about the Chicago Meatup, it is being held February 17-19. You can find all the information at www.gaymers2012.com

Are random hookups worth it? Especially for first time? by Jebusownzallin gaymers

[–]LulzAndHappiness 9 points10 points ago

It must be the morning since I read that comment and was like: What other condom would they use? Do they make non-fucking condoms?

-_-

my first post!! grindr advice? by Crazywolf111in gaymers

[–]LulzAndHappiness 2 points3 points ago

That's really good advice. But to add to that, never take anyone's word on their HIV status as fact. This applies to every person—guy or girl, gay or straight or queer/bi/other/what-have-you, etc. This also applies to every situation, whether you chat on grindr or meet at a bar/club or through mutual friends, etc. People lie, not know their status, or have gotten infected recently and their tests doesn't show it yet. Obviously, this doesn't apply to long-term and monogamous relationships (where that's a whole other trust issue), but we're not talking about here. Approach people on grindr the same you would if you were to talk to strangers in meatspace.

my first post!! grindr advice? by Crazywolf111in gaymers

[–]LulzAndHappiness 10 points11 points ago

Forgive me for copy-pasting what I wrote in a previous thread, but I feel the information hasn't changed:

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I've only been using the app for a short time, but here are my instructions:

  1. Download the app.
  2. Put up as much information as you're willing to give (height/weight/age). I put more information up because I like people that are comfortable enough to put theirs up as well.
  3. Put up a message that either reveals something about your personality or explains your intentions (are you looking only for friends, looking to hook-up, what kind of guys you're interested in).
  4. Choose an image for your profile. People respond a lot more to a picture that shows your face, regardless if you're looking for sex or just to chat.
  5. Wait for people to message you or be proactive and message others.
  6. Profit

Now here are my findings/advice:

  1. Most people are genuinely nice. The number of people I've had easy-going conversations with far outweigh the creeps.
  2. People lie about their age/stats all the time, though it's usually just a fudging of the numbers. Don't feel bad asking for more pics to get a better idea of what the person looks like. If you only get 1 type of picture (all face pics, all pics posed in the same way), that's generally a sign that they're hiding something.
  3. Always establish people's intentions. Some are looking just for sex, some are looking for friends, and some are looking for relationships. Most people want to just connect (not necessarily sexually) with other gay guys in their area, and apps like grindr help with that. But if your intentions don't match up with a guy, then it's fine to let him know and stop a conversation, since it'll be better for both parties.
  4. Don't feel bad if people don't message back. There are many different reasons someone won't message back: they're busy/working, they only log in on the weekends, they're talking to someone else, they set their phone down to do something else. Them not liking you is only one of the many many reasons they might not respond (and frankly, it's better they don't respond than to try to be nice and end up stringing you along).
  5. Conversations can turn NSFW very very fast. Don't use the app if you get offended by questions/comments of a sexual nature (even if you're not looking for that).
  6. YOU ARE NEVER OBLIGATED TO MEET ANYONE. Do what makes you comfortable. If anyone makes you feel uncomfortable, block them. That's what the button is for.

I can go on, but this is a book now. PM if you have any other questions. I've only used the app for a short time but I have made friends with guys online and have met guys off of it with varying success.

The Chicago Meetup by MisterGhostin gaymers

[–]LulzAndHappiness 1 point2 points ago

I would get in touch with digitalsciguy, who is the Transportation Captain. If you still need a ride and don't want to take the el, let me know. I don't mind driving to the airport.

Okay Smarty go to a Party: Chicago Gaymer Meatup by jasenleein gaymers

[–]LulzAndHappiness 2 points3 points ago

This is a great idea. I will talk to jasenlee about that.

I wanted to personally invite /r/gaybros to the Chicago Gaymers Meatup. I've even specifically reserved a court for dodgeball, for the guys that like to sweat :D by LulzAndHappinessin gaybros

[–]LulzAndHappiness[S] 1 point2 points ago

To add on dubyadubya's comments, the shower system is just for those that are planning on crashing for the nights at jasenlee's place, which is just a small portion of the people that are coming. If you think of the issues involved in trying to shower in the morning when you share a bathroom with roommates/family, multiple that by 10, and you'll start to realize how it can get problematic trying to accomodate everyone.

I wanted to personally invite /r/gaybros to the Chicago Gaymers Meatup. I've even specifically reserved a court for dodgeball, for the guys that like to sweat :D by LulzAndHappinessin gaybros

[–]LulzAndHappiness[S] 1 point2 points ago

I hope you do end up deciding to come. We really want to open this up to gaymers from all around the country (and internationally) as well. If you have any reservations, concerns, questions, or comments about the meetup, feel free to PM me. I, along with the other captains, am helping jasenlee plan this thing and am committed to making this meetup memorable and fun for all involved.

I wanted to personally invite /r/gaybros to the Chicago Gaymers Meatup. I've even specifically reserved a court for dodgeball, for the guys that like to sweat :D by LulzAndHappinessin gaybros

[–]LulzAndHappiness[S] 3 points4 points ago

I feel like there's a lot of misconceptions about the shower and basement situation. If you've been to the last meetup, you will know that jasenlee (the host) has a pretty candid and sometimes pervy sense of humor. But it's all in good fun, like the innocent flirting we do on these subreddits all day. He really wants everyone to have fun and is really sensitive of anyone feeling uncomfortable.

Also, jasenlee's place is not big. In fact, it's only a 2-bedroom/1-bathroom place. It's really generous of him to open up his place to a bunch of strangers and we're not looking to restrict anyone from coming. That's one of the reasons we have so many events planned outside of the house. You can't comfortably accomodate everyone in his house. The shower situation is only for those that are staying the night at his place, and it's strictly optional. It started as a cheeky suggestion that got blown out of proportion. And if you've seen his basement, it's a cold, messy, junk-filled room (shared with the other tenants in the building). I doubt any sexing will be happening down there. Again, that was just a cheeky off-hand comment in regards to gaymers looking to hook-up.

I wanted to personally invite /r/gaybros to the Chicago Gaymers Meatup. I've even specifically reserved a court for dodgeball, for the guys that like to sweat :D by LulzAndHappinessin gaybros

[–]LulzAndHappiness[S] 3 points4 points ago

Ya, we've got people coming in from Canada and all around the states (from California to Maine).

COLD CHICAGO WINTER ~ WARM GAYMER BODIES // Chicago Gaymers Meatup only a few weeks away! by LulzAndHappinessin gaymers

[–]LulzAndHappiness[S] 6 points7 points ago

Well, the boy (me) will be at the meatup, so you can get all the information you want if you come ;-)

COLD CHICAGO WINTER ~ WARM GAYMER BODIES // Chicago Gaymers Meatup only a few weeks away! by LulzAndHappinessin gaymers

[–]LulzAndHappiness[S] 6 points7 points ago

I don't know what you're inferring. We're only trying to save water and allow maximum usage of the single bathroom... >_>

COLD CHICAGO WINTER ~ WARM GAYMER BODIES // Chicago Gaymers Meatup only a few weeks away! by LulzAndHappinessin gaymers

[–]LulzAndHappiness[S] 5 points6 points ago

Click here for more information about the meatup.

RSVP here.

Read the definitive meatup guide here.

We've got the venues confirmed and the schedule all set. We've even got gaymers coming in from Canada and all around the country (from California to Maine).

Gayme on!

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