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I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 0 points1 point ago

But is it hot because the people are hot, or hot because of the mood? That's where our opinions differ.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 2 points3 points ago

You're an idiot.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 0 points1 point ago

I'm the type who if my feelings get me in trouble, I'll shut them in as much as I can. I don't like confronting anyone about things or arguing on purpose. I didn't feel like I was being irrational either until I came on here and asked and got so many people for porn instead of against.

I don't think she means to hurt me with it, she is just a bit forgetful.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 0 points1 point ago

I kinda figured it wasn't.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 0 points1 point ago

Lol it's been different types of porn each time. And as I've said before, we are very open with our fantasies. I know she likes BDSM, I enjoy giving it to her. That's not the issue.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 0 points1 point ago

Because it's seeing other people doing sexual things and to me it seems that people get pleasure out of that because they want to be in the scene.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] -2 points-1 points ago

Teach her how to hide her activities, as in closing the windows before she turns off her computer so they don't reopen in my face when I'm putting in a DVD lol.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 1 point2 points ago

I think you misunderstood what I wrote. We both love sexing each other as often as possible. She is just worried, based on her past relationships and lovers, that she is addicted to sex, not the relationship itself. She made the proposal, I accepted it.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 0 points1 point ago

That's the thing, she's very open about her fantasies. We both enjoy each others, we are very complimentary when it comes to that. I'm pretty sure that if I can get her to come to screaming orgasms after we make love for hours I'm pretty sure I'm doing something right.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] -3 points-2 points ago

Yea I'm going to teach her how to hide it better, at least until I get over the idea. I showed her the thread. She said you guys explain things way better then she ever could lol.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] -1 points0 points ago

Donezo.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] -12 points-11 points ago

THANKS

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] -2 points-1 points ago

Lol. Nope, she's mine. Hopefully forever.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 0 points1 point ago

Looks like I'm special.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 1 point2 points ago

Maybe I'll get used to it over time. I hate fighting with her more then anything else. This doesn't feel like something worth fighting for, compromise seems to be the best bet right now.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 11 points12 points ago

Yea that sounds good to me. Maybe I should teach her how to close windows and use private browsing :P

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] -3 points-2 points ago

I'm a pretty sensitive guy.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 8 points9 points ago

I'm going to go back over once this wraps up and apologize. See if I can salvage tonight at least.

Don't think I'll ask to watch porn with her though. That's just too far for me right now.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 4 points5 points ago

We both know that, that's why we're going for a long-term engagement before, to work out the problems. We have 4 to 6 years of college left.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 2 points3 points ago

Yea...I was just so infruriated at the moment that I wasn't really thinking. She even told me that she just likes the noises and is fantasizing about me and her while doing it.

I've always been insecure, especially about my physical self. I want us to be totally open about everything and when I react like this I see why she would be hiding it.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 0 points1 point ago

Sometimes you just need an outsider's opinion. I've lived a pretty sheltered life, so I do have special opinions. Small town guy.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 2 points3 points ago

Yes it's for real. Good to know we aren't alone >.<.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 3 points4 points ago

I think I'll be able to live with it now that I've realized it's pretty normal.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 27 points28 points ago

But her orgasms are mine! Just kidding, this is helping me out a lot. I don't want to be a doucher.

I keep catching my SO with porn, am I wrong to be upset? by ConfusedRightNow1in relationships

[–]ConfusedRightNow1[S] 9 points10 points ago

I don't want her to be someone else. Learned a lot from this thread. Going to fix things. Thanks guys.

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