I'd say I have a normal-high sex drive, but that's the thing I feel like its all just drive, lust, yearning, whatever you want to call it. Once it gets down to the nitty-gritty I'm pretty much always left disappointed. Maybe I've been in a relationship too long (3 years) but: sex, oral, handjobs, still working on anal; nothing seems to really satisfy me. Dont get me wrong I love the sexy time, I cant imagine anything more pleasurable then getting my lady off, but my orgasm always just seems like an afterthought (not for lack of her trying). Masturbation doesn't even come close. I can masturbate 3 times in row and still be left in want, yet I always seem to end up doing it again the next day anyway. I've never told by GF this, or therapist for that matter, but its honestly really fucking frustrating. Its like some deep primal itch that I just cant seem to ever quite scratch. I guess what what I'm asking is... Is there something wrong with me.